“It’s not me who wants her, it’s her who wants him.”
“It’s not me who wants him, it’s him who wants her.”
Attributing their own infidelities, or the desire to cheat on their partner.
“I don’t love him, I love her.”
“I don’t love her, I love him.”
However, they avoid direct contact with their partner. In such cases, they usually speak of a mystical connection, platonic love, heroic endurance of all trials.
Impersonal attraction growing to the size of the whole world.
Latent homosexuality.
“I don’t love him, she loves him.”
“I don’t love her, he loves her.”
One’s own homosexual tendencies are attributed to the partner.
“I don’t love him, I hate him.”
“I don’t love her, I hate her.”
A disorder in the realm of one’s own Imaginary.
“I don’t hate him, he hates me.”
“I don’t hate her, she hates me.”
Delusions of persecution.